Friday, January 28, 2022

Words ....an intellectual fight


Words spilt on to paper, is ones form of expression

How one understands them depends on the reader's perception..


Few words manage to make one smile, few make ones eyes wet ..

Few words resonate with the readers and few fall flat..with deep regret..


Writing makes the heart feel light..

Finding the right words is no less than a intellectual fight..

When the words spill out on the paper to make an impression, there is no more happiness than that for the writer to write..

Soulful writing adds a spark to the creation ,when the words themselves start to ignite..



Connecting the minds....will connect the dots...

Happiness among people is defined, when their minds greatly connect.

Cus, people with similar thoughts give you an unexplainable sense of comfort.

Their feelings,views and thoughts are like mirrors which reflect..

And thats the reason that, whatever they think or say, you involuntarily accept..


Ofcourse, if the other person is having a different mindset, its not to be seen as a defect..

As its a human weakness that everyone thinks that what they think is only perfect..

Forgetting, one should respect all kinds of thoughts and just accept..


But definitely if you are lucky enough to get people who perfectly resonate your thoughts..

Who can match your mind..

Their is no other bliss in life like it, you can ever find..


These souls might just be the missing pieces fitting perfectly in your life's jigsaw puzzle , unsolved..

Think of it as the right time for you to connect with them and let yourself evolve



Soon to be extinct....


How I wish extinction was a cyclic process..

Would have saved all the other species from distress.

It would have cleared the world of the huge mess..

The ugly mess we humans have created in the name of progress..

Destroying the beautiful nature with our prowess.


Most dangerous creation of all, the great human race..

Even god didnt think what he created so skillfully would be such a disgrace..

Instead of living in harmony with nature ,he wanted to own the whole place..


With destruction at such a maddening pace , soon a whole new world will arise with a new dawn..

Where we will see us species as extinct and long long gone..



Tears...a doorway for emotions...

 Few human emotions one mustn't hide..

They need to be brought out from the place where they secretly reside..


As the surge of deep emotions if not openly expressed ..

And internally they are badly suppressed..

Can make a person badly depressed...


Happiness or sorrow, success or failure, satisfied or frustrated..

Tears form a door way for the emotions inside..


All other leaks need a timely fix to hold..

But not the tears, as they give the passage for deepest of emotions to unload.





Ways god has structured us to face the problems we deal..

It is our own mind comforting us saying, its ok,

tear up whenever you feel..and let the inside of you slowly heal..

Open your minds before your mouths...

Wise men said, 'Think before you speak' 

If not, from the tongue meaningless words may just leak..


Hurling insensitive words in anger pierces the other person like a knife in the heart

The anger subsides,but the lingering pain seem to never depart..

The shame and insult endured in the silence will push the individuals apart.. 


With lots of useless ego, we become rather blind..

Hurting others, leaving our senses behind..

Before opening our mouth..we should open our mind..

As once mind is alligned, words spoken are more refined ..

Our relationship with all will be definitely more well defined..




Fuzzy vision....


Fuzzy is our vision of tomorrow..

Whether it will bring us oodles of joy or sorrow..


When we can't predict what will happen today..

the very next moment....

Few ignorants think they are on the earth forever permanent..


Tiny fragments of god's creation..we humans are .. 

Today here ..tomorrow, might be nowhere..

So, lets live life for this moment..

As no one can change what is later imminent..



A life is Sprouting..


The nature waves its magic wand..

And a new life sprouts its way out delicately..

still attached to its roots with an invisible bond..

A beautiful metamorphosis, the life undergoes from a seed to something beyond.


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Inner Collision.....

There is always a collision in our thoughts

Thats where the mind always gets caught..

When it comes to deciding between a yes or no, should or shouldn't and can or cannot..

In all these mind games, one should not get lost..

Instead have a clear thought process of what decision will help them and what will not..



God's biggest blunder....the human wonder...


If you had to take a pick of the worst of god's creation..

Which one would you tick ??


God made the biggest blunder

In the hopes of creating a wonder..


What he probably hoped for, is all the species living in harmony..

But look at the irony..

His prized creation, the great human cannot live amidst his own kind..

Superior of all , with a brilliant mind

Though with a clear vision , has turned blind..


Destroying every other species and also his own with his selfishness

Gradually in the process, he is eventually killing his own happiness...


Time to realise his stupidity and come to a realisation..

That he needs to derive a proper equation..


All is well and we as humans can thrive, 

only when, we are ready to live and let live...


Otherwise, very soon a day is awaited..

Where god might just destroy what he proudly created..


Just like eons back,dinosaurs were wiped out by nature..and became extinct..

Soon, we too will be removed from the face of the earth,obviously for its betterment, says my instinct..



Home....a nest made with love..

Roof over the head is a blessing for us fortunate many..

Those who realise its real value are sadly, the ones without any..


A small nest called HOME ..,is all what one needs to be in peace..

But in the mad race of acquiring more and more, all it leads to is only frustration and unease..


Big or small,a house becomes a home by the beautiful people who stay together..

Otherwise its as senseless as a treasure box without the actual treasure..


Love, cherish and be grateful for your home and your bondings in there..

For there are many unfortunate ones in this world, with neither a place to live nor people to care..



A therapist called TIME...

Things break..

Relationships break..

Hearts break..

All giving a different kind of ache..


Things are easy to mend, if stuck with glue..

How to mend the hearts, seems no one has any clue..


Broken hearts are the most difficult to repair..

Because it has to be handled with utmost care..


Though the broken pieces are put together by love,care and affection..

It is the magic of time which would slowly heal it to ones satisfaction...


One should always believe in tomorrow..

Leaving behind the bad memories, disappointments and sorrow..


Yes, for Time is the only magic potion...

Which gradually cools down the commotion..in the heart's deepest ocean..


So..take it slowly...take Time to recover ..

One day at a time.....till all that hurts disappear..

For life is much bigger than these heart breaks..

Cuz there waits a new challenge everyday at your gates..

To get through this alive, strong will,courage and being hopeful is what it really takes.. 


Take a deep breath...and hold on..

It is you and only you,that time is working upon..



Relationships....sweet or sour...

Any relationships in life turn sour..

When there is more of ME,MY, than OUR..


People who stay together may not be always a perfect pair...

Its just that they have mutual respect to share..

The ability to ignore petty things and forgiving is what they do and care..


Perfect partners is just a myth..to say..

It might just be in a movie or a play..

People work to make their relationship stay..

With thousands of compromises,adjustments and understanding ..,when done from both...and not one way..


Truth of life is , never will be two people alike

Your own image in your soul mate..you will never find..

Its just an illogical expectation you have in your mind..

Even if you think you will, never will you find your kind..

Sometimes it may seem perfect..but again you will find something misaligned ..

That is not how perfect partners are designed..


Not that you need to belittle yourself and be blind...

But, learn to accept people as they are, and with your thoughts more refined.


The strategy for a relationship to work is undefined.. 

Its just lots of love, understanding and few adjustments and compromises all of them craftfully entwined..

Thats how all sourness in life can be sweetened..




Woman's life...wonder whether is it about her or others...??

Everyday for a woman is a struggle..

For her it remains a vast unsolved puzzle..


Not easy for her to choose between family and herself..

For one is her reason for survival and the other for revival..


Be it her choice to be with family or prove her individuality..

Whatever she chooses, the world is ready to make her feel guilty..


All she gets is labels, and harshly pushed aside..

Who cares to realise, she is fighting her own battles inside..

The shackles of norms of society to which she is tied..

Their words and judgements only adding to the already existing high rising tide..


A bird can never fly if its held tight..

Come on, let her free and take her flight..

She is her own saviour and her own sunlight.

Reborn in every phase of life.. like the Phoenix rising from the ashes..

let her decide in her life's book, what she wants to write..

Because its a poem of her own, the one, only she can recite..




Let us treasure....not pressure...

The young innocent mind like a tiny flower under a heavy stone, finds it hard to bloom..

With loads of fear, distress,unnecessary expectations , leading to unending gloom..

Unable to find a way to express themselves and

loads of things they presume..

Caress, hug, love, understand,encourage and appreciate....and more importantly give them your time and ears..

That will make a way for them to be themselves and drive away their fears..


Let them bloom without any stress in their full glory..

Carve their childhood with their own beautiful story...

Let their dreams not get crushed giving in to the undue worldly pressure..

Give them their freedom and loads of moments and memories, that they can always treasure...


Let us all become our better versions..

As children are just our mere reflections..

Lets not force them with our expectations..

Let children be children...

Let children be CHILDREN...

Blooming seamlessly in the life's Garden..




Watch out.....

 Watch out...

Watch your thoughts...

Watch your talk..

Watch your steps....


Once you water a negative thought,

Once you utter a hurtful word,

  Once you take a careless step...

   There is no going back...


For in real time, there are no options to undo or delete..

.. And you still have a long journey to complete..

So just accept,acknowledge and ahead you move..

Its not for others, but for yourself you need to improve..



Nature is always there to watch and guide you like your mother..

Learn from your mistakes in every step of life and come out better....

Dandelion....



''She softly blew the dandelion

While the naughty wind blew her hair...


For few, it appeared a mess, scattered everywhere..

For others, it felt like a sight to behold,a muted lovely affair...


It is the nature's way of telling..

In life, you always have a choice to either rejoice or despair...''

Home....the safe nest of our happiness..

 'Home' is a recently released malayalam movie. Its a lovely movie which touches your soul in every way with a heart warming narration of the story line.

What a beautiful movie, and how aptly the message intended delivered. The minute nuances of our every day habits thrown on our faces..a generation which is more into 'likes' than real liking towards their family, more into virtuality than reality, more into money than emotions.., one which looks for happiness in success, goals, destination than enjoying the path or journey...

Older generations might not be tech savvy,but definitely they knew how to lead and handle their life and the challenges it threw. This generation lacks the very basic ingredient for experiencing the real happiness...they dont know what is the meaning of happiness..its all measured in par with the money they earn, the position and comforts they hold..which is unfortunately wrong. Hope we all become more responsible and make atleast our kids understand , happiness lies not in material things but in making moments with your loved ones,respecting others likes and dislikes and not by putting others down ,even if its your own family.

Lovely acting by all actors and soulful music.

Worth watching this lovely piece of art amidst all the other mindless, violent movies , webseries and soaps ..

Its like a cool breeze blowing on your face amidst all the chaos in our lives..

5/5 as it satisfied the thirst of a moviegoer in me completely. Streaming on amazon prime..watch it..

Language should not be a barrrier for such heart warming story narration.

Live ,love , respect and value the emotions, relationships and bondings...

At the end of the day,Nothing else matters..🙂 Does it????

Words of wisdom from a CORONA WARRIOR....

Sharing below certain things from my own personal experience and thoughts, after having struggled and finally overpowered the deadly disease. It is my own set of things which I have summarized with a good intention of helping people who are on the same wavelength. People who disagree can also just browse through the same to see if something atleast helps them. 

If people are healthy, request them to please go and get themselves vaccinated first(depending on the availability) , because I believe that the intensity of infection will surely be much much lesser if one is vaccinated. 

Remember, for people who are asymptomatic or with very mild symptoms, it's easy to pass through this quarantine phase because nothing major would have affected them . But, for people with moderate /severe infections it is tough to be in a positive mindset, while they undergo the pain and discomfort with the illness, keep themselves in the right frame of mind with the circus happening around. It is not easy to keep oneself motivated. 

And so I humbly  request everyone not to generalize everyone's infection, and instead try to support, empathize and help out people physically (wherever possible) and more mentally, emotionally and morally by talking positive things OTHER Than talking about just the infection/virus and simply advicing them of other 100 medications, tests and things which they might be already into. 

So I thought, I will try to summarize a few things from my own experience to help out anyone who is in the same mode as me. 

First things first( from my experience if you have covid symptoms) :

1.Never overmedicate yourself with everything everyone tells. Everyone's body is different and may not react the same way. Manage with paracetamol for fever and pain for a period of 8-10 days if your body permits. Don't add too many medications, high dosage antivirals, etc etc unless necessary. 

Your body fights any virus/ bacteria on its own. You just need to aid it by being tolerant and not over reacting. 

2. Keep an oxymeter and thermometer handy. They are the ones which help you to monitor, regulate and decide on further actions.

3. Please approach some sensible, genuine and non commercial doctors before deciding on anything adverse. 

Remember,  if the virus had an effective  medicinal cure, people would not be suffering and dying like this. (Chest x-ray or scan is required only in extreme cases. Unnecessary scans and x-rays will only cause long lasting damage. So be smart before deciding on anything.) 

4.Incase of breathlessness or slight pain in chest, lie down on your stomach with a pillow support. 

Check for the technique called 'Proning' on net and practice. This will definitely help you increase your saturation levels. 

5.Do slow breathing. Inhale through nose, hold for 3 seconds and breath slowly out through mouth. Repeat for a few counts. 

6. Even though people claim steam inhalation helps, it might not actually kill the virus and overdoing it may lead to other complications. So do limit yourself taking the steam. Try nebulization for a couple of days, if there is too much of congestion, but after taking a prescription from doctor. 

7.Gargle with salt water or betadine solution if throat pain or irritation. 

8.Drink hot fluids frequently. Keep hydrating with tender coconut water , fruit juice and ORS. 

9.Have simple, easily digestible and nutritious food, lots of veggies, greens and fruits. Take multivitamins for few days if needed. 

10. Wear masks when around others, wash hands and have things sanitized which you have touched. 

11. Have some important phone numbers stored for emergency use, and use them as last resort. 

12.Isolating and self treatment at home is much better, as the hospital environment is definitely not for everyone and it affects one's mind, which ultimately affects the body.

Added to that, the current scene at hospitals is quite ugly, not to blame the medical system. But with the high level of cases, it's quite normal. Patients outnumber the medics and the medical workers are already drained of their energy serving from past 1 year. So nothing to be blamed here. 

Now coming to the non-medical things, which I feel are more important to be aware of during the infection rather than other things are :

1. Never panic, have positive outlook whatever may be the situation, and try to endure the pain to whatever extent possible. Stay strong in your mind. 

2.Have people with positive vibes and attitude around to help you, There should be people who can support you by talking positively, calm your tensions by keeping on telling you will be alright. 

Remember those who have panic attack themselves can't take good care of you and you very well will end up in hospitals.

Understand that there are people with serious issues to be taking hospital beds, so don't rush to the hospital just for minor issues. 

3. Stop watching/reading/talking about the disease. Every single thing/message leads to the virus now. So try to divert yourself with other good things.. Throw the mobile. 

Read a good book(though not easy to concentrate), watch some comedy movie, try to relive your good memories, play some music, shloka chanting around you all the time. Good vibrations definitely help you. It's a proven fact. 

4. Try to self motivate yourself, think of all the good things in your life and the better things which you are going to do in future. 

Never lose hope, keep talking to yourself, keep motivating yourself, tell yourself you are not gonna give up for a silly virus(though easier said than done),

stay away from too many advices from every individual you talk to (though it might be genuine, too many things will only affect your functioning). 

5.The incubation period of the virus is around 10±5 days. So the danger of the virus spreading after 15/20 days is lesser, especially with masks and social distancing no matter what. So, please don't keep on testing yourself positive or negative for your assurance as there are people who really need to be tested in labs. And with every necessity getting misused by certain section of people for making money even in this pandemic situation too, it's a really unfortunate scenario. Don't know what can get worse than this. 

I am just trying to do my bit here,  by sharing things as I have experienced in these almost 25  days of infection/isolation to recovery. It might or might not help you.. But one definite thing is irrespective of whatever, KEEP PUSHING YOURSELF through this tough phase, as NO ONE ELSE CAN DO IT FOR YOU.

Also for people who ask, why I caught the infection though am a regular yoga and Pranayama practitioner, I believe although I got it, I could fight out the virus only because I was mentally, emotionally and physically strong which is ultimately because of my yoga and Pranayama. Yoga never fails anyone... Soon need to get back to practice, as I regain my strength. 

Well, all is well... Every experience in life definitely gives us something in return.

Best takeaway for me from this experience is my kids have become super responsible.. ☺️

My elder one can take care of her sibling, do the dishes, hang clothes, fold clothes, make tea, spread the bed, clean her things. And the lil one observing her and learning. Though there are quite a number of spills, shouts, quarrels, fights... Its completely acceptable considering the small innocent minds are trapped inside 4 walls with ailing people and the ghostly virus all around them. 

Not being able to see/interact with friends, not seeing the outside world, no travel, all restrictions.. they are super adaptable to every circumstance..

..... I wish we grown ups could be as mature as them....

Praying the world heals itself soon.🙏

God... 🙏🙏🙏🙏

I know everyone is not as lucky as some of us who have recovered... I just pray wholeheartedly that this pandemic ends soon and we have a more beautiful world with more matured people..And we soon have those days where we can go greet people without fear, shake hands, hug each other, not sanitize every bloody thing, travel to every nook and corner without having to fear about anything, children play/roam freely outside, doctors/front line warriors can sigh a breath of relief.. That finally the war is over............... 🌄

Praying... Waiting with bated breath for that day..But while at it, not to forget to.......slowly.. 

INHALE...... EXHALE... .

INHALE....................................

EXHALE...................................

I....... N.... H... A..... L.... E... 

E...... X... H.... A.......L....E.....

What is a PERSPECTIVE?? from my perspective..

 'Perspective'.... The one which differentiates one's view point from another...and creates rifts unless properly handled.

Though majority of younger generation think that they are the most superior and intelligent beings on earth and think that their elders 'old school perspective' is illogical, should understand that even that old school  perspective is a ripened one built with their life's experiences.

Younger generation thinks differently..Older ones in a different angle....The former ones think its all fine to spend thoughtlessly may be a hefty amount on a new gadget (having one/many already) or spending online on unwanted things or that expensive dress which might be worn only once in their lifetime or a lavish party to celebrate some occasion and many many more. While, on the other hand a matured(some still need maturity) parent might think it's all a waste of money, and the same money spent for all these could as well be utilized for a better purpose or even to help out a needy person. 

So who is right here..??? 🤔I know MOST PARENTS will think alike and YOUNGER KIDS  agree to disagree with their elders...again difference here is the perspective, ..but one being a PERSPECTIVE which is more MATURE with a strong base and other one which is much more Raw supported on a flimsy base. 

Few kids debate that what good are parents for, if they can't even meet their 'real'(whatever it means) needs..and parents oppose the kids saying it's not necessary to cater to all their whims and fancies.. 

Its not wrong for the kids to demand.. But it becomes a parents major responsibility to make aware and educate their kids(from their childhood) of the difference between their NEEDS and WANTS ... though there might be a few exceptions here and there,based on the situation.

Some parents wants their kids to be always be in a comfort zone, don't want to fail them nor want them to fail at all, masking them of the real struggles and facts of life. It's fine for parents to aspire for happiness of kids , but never should they be shielded always.

Again, Parents who themselves have had a tough childhood and have seen the hardships in their parents life will definitely think quite differently than ones who have not seen any. The former set of people as per me will be more serious and responsible towards their life , know the real value of money, and how to weigh and prioritize relationships/feelings over the other temporary things. 

It does not mean that the latter are not knowledgeable. Just that they don't know have the first hand experience of dealing with the real hardships in life and hence they will be immature in their decisions and judgements.

Whatever their own childhood looked like, parents should guide kids in the right direction. They have to somehow devise ways to make them aware of the reality, show them the mirror and make them APPRECIATE the life they are leading, the luxuries they have compared to the less privilaged ones. 

On the other hand, the younger lot need to respect their parents and appreciate their life. They should take few pages from their parent's life and try to lead life in a more matured, satisfying manner. 

Yes the younger lot have a much broader access to things, wider social network, much more comfort they could ask for....but they lack the clarity of mind (as there are way too many things cluttered there) and patience to comprehend their true priorities, value of the things which really add value to life. 

The older generation led a much happier and simpler life, with more struggles and less comfort and minimal access to everything. They might have some old superstitious beliefs which may not fit into the current digital lifestyle, but believe me most of the things they suggest have a logical backing and their experience speaks. 

Its not a myth that experience is the best teacher in life... The multifold experiences in a person's life matures his inner ability and his vision towards every aspect becomes much clearer. 

So l feel it's always good to listen/learn from older experienced people on most of the things(excepting few things) as they are more qualified to suggest the right things..

It is not a war of mentalities and perspectives .. Its the phase of each one's age that's drives everyone to think differently.. 

Young kids think differently based on what they see and understand on an everyday basis. 

Teenagers are on a different high 'thinking not to think about anything'.....they just do what they want.. 

Adults think too much of themselves,  because they are adults now...:-) though still they are in a transition zone like zombies. 

Middle aged laugh at their earlier phase of adulthood when they acted stupid and thought they knew everything.. They now realize that how immature they had been... And try to debate and drive in some sense into the younger lot with their experience, as they are midway. But again to no avail as the younger ones are adults now :-) 

Old aged people remember their whole journey introspecting their entire life..laughing at the goofups the other below in the ladder are upto.

Its not to address that any one phase is right or wrong here , but want to just stress that in every phase of life one should enjoy life.. But defining one's limits morally and with more maturity, taking in heed the real essence of life. Introspect, listen, introspect, learn.. should be the way of life. 

Everyone is living, it's more about the point of life one is in and how well they are managing ... Swimming in a tub, pool, river and ocean... all involve breathing, swimming and survival skills.. But at the same time requires a different kind of strength, training, capacity and understanding based on where you are at that point of time and how well trained you are . 

It is possible to swim through life only when we are humble, open minded to learn and patient to try. 

We feel and regret at a later point of life, not having the maturity and right understanding earlier even though someone tried hard to pull us on the right track... We think lets see all that later when we grow old.. Why not try living life sensibly   from today rather than postponing it to later..??? 

Anyway all part of the game, I feel it's upto each individual to choose.. Whether to learn, inherit, and implement to make their lives more worthwhile TODAY or just live on their own terms without an ounce of openness to listen/learn and comprehend, finally to realize the very same FACTS at a later point of time.

As its quoted "LIFE and TIME are the world's best teachers. LIFE teaches us to make the correct use of time and TIME teaches the real value of life." but if we are able to elevate ourselves and learn things a little earlier on in life with the already enlightened ones, it makes our journey much more satisfying and remorseless. 

What say..!!!